So, what happens once you decide to sample my delights?
Well you need to contact me. You can do this initially by email, via my contact page here or even by text for an initial enquiry. I will want to speak to you on the phone before I meet you though. I'm also not into ongoing text conversations so be warned! I have to be wary of the phone wankers (those telling me their lurid fantasies whilst knocking one out) and I need to be sure you are a genuine client and not a child or suspicious wife!
Apart from anything I can tell a lot from someones phone manner which helps with my twat radar! The way I see it is if someone can not communicate with me nicely on the phone I don't wish to meet them! That's not to say you should worry about sounding nervous or fumbling over your words- that's to be expected and doesn't put me off. If you have questions and you're nervous you can always write them down as a prompt if you have a more complicated request ask me if you can email more information (I'll say yes!)
So on the phone we will agree a day and time and for how long. You can tell me any requests you have such as what I wear or what you want from the session. Equally, you don't have to be specific if you're not sure and just want to go with the flow. However it's handy for me if you have something you want me to wear or if you want analplay/fisting.
Once we have agreed when I may ask you to confirm. If the booking is within the next couple of hours then it doesn't matter but any longer then I will ask you to call or text to confirm nearer the time. The reason for this is that there are timewasters out there and of course genuine reasons why you can't make it may come up. At the final confirmation I will give a street name and ask you to call me when you arrive. I'll also ask how you are getting here so I can offer further advice on public transport or parking. Again because people don't show up I won't give out the exact flat number until you have arrived. So, don't worry if you think I'm being cagey, it's standard procedure!
So, what happens when you arrive? Well, a welcome and hopefully you can admire my loveliness! I'll take you through to my bedroom and I'll offer you a drink and use of the bathroom. A shower, towels and manly (but non scented) body wash is provided.
If you haven't offered it up I will ask for the cash. It's pretty standard procedure getting money up front. it's not that I don't trust you, but well, I don't trust anyone! It also means that if we end up having a magical time we may be too elated to remember at the end!
How things will go will depend on the booking and what you want. What you want and don't want won't offend me, so don't worry about that and equally I'll expect you to respect what I don't offer too. I know some guys aren't into kissing so if I ask you don't feel bad about saying no if it's not your bag. Don't feel you need to think of something if you just want a simple straightforward session just say so!
We may have already discussed what you are looking for over the phone or by email, but if not I'll ask you. If you want my mild domination and/or service I will have a chat with you about your boundaries and what you want. It's important we establish what you are comfortable with and I may make suggestions if you're not quite sure. If safe words are appropriate we will agree on them too.
If you're new to this kind of thing I may show you what I might like to use (such as whips or paddles) to make sure your are comfortable with me using them. I won't leave any marks on you unless you ask me to. If anal play is your thing I'll ask you about how much experience you have had and choose my toys accordingly! It's quite helpful to tell me this over the phone though so I can ensure I have my collection at hand.
I expect our booking to finish when the time paid for is up, if we are looking like going over i'll ask if you want to extend or make moves to 'complete' the booking. I'm not the sort to chuck you out on the dot, but I do expect some courtesy regarding my time. I may well have plans or need time to shower and prepare for another client so don't assume it's OK to hang about and certainly not without asking.
Once we've had our fun I'll offer you use of the bathroom and before you leave make sure you are decent; no inside out jumpers or lipstick on your face!
Hotel Visits If you're booking an outcall at a hotel then I will ask for the room number and call you in your room to confirm you are indeed there! I'll double check with you that I can get to your room OK- some hotels have a keycard system so I won't be able to get in the lift or to the room without one, In this case we'll arrange to meet somewhere. I will also ask you where the lifts are in relation to the main entrance so I can walk in as if I am meant to be there. Don't worry, I always dress conservatively or casually when arriving and I won't be asking for you at the front desk. I will however have something sexy on underneath or something to change into if that's more practical. Assuming I can get into the hotel OK I will text you on arrival and let you know I'm on my way up.
I don't have a set routine when it comes to a booking, each one will be tailored to what you the client requires so as much information or ideas on what you want is really helpful, either when making the booking or when we first meet.