delve a little deeper....
Sexting is now a thing. It even appears in the OED and is defined as: To Sext- Send (someone)photographs or messages via
Prior to that people have probably been having phone sex since the invention of the telephone but commercial phone sex services were offered in around 1980.
The first Phone Sex Websites to appear on the internet started somewhere around 1994, they were small independent companies, and women with a direct connect call to a girl at home rather than a dispatcher or recorded menu. Payment is done by credit card and calls are billed by the minute typically, or as a block of time.
By the year 2000 there was such an explosion on the internet that there were literally hundreds of varying phone sex services available. These services varied from Dispatch Services, Service Bureaus, to independent one girl operations.
But don't think that all this sexy stuff is a new thing. Back in 1909 James Joyce wrote the most amazingly candid and explicit letters to his sweetheart Nora Barnacle including this delightful piece of prose...
"My sweet little whorish Nora I did as you told me, you dirty little girl, and pulled myself off twice when I read your letter. I am delighted to see that you do like being fucked arseways. Yes, now I can remember that night when I fucked you for so long backwards. It was the dirtiest fucking I ever gave you, darling. My prick was stuck in you for hours, fucking in and out under your upturned rump. I felt your fat sweaty buttocks under my belly and saw your flushed face and mad eyes."
And the youth of today think they invented anal sex!
Now there are a huge number of online webcamming services, adult phone lines as well as apps such as Arousr which allow you to sext, make calls, swap photos and even private 1-2-1 video calling.
The use of apps makes it much easier to indulge in a bit of sexting, no need to be at computer or run up suspicious calls on your landline. You can even do it from a dull meeting or on the commute home! Although you may wish to refrain from video sex on the train!