delve a little deeper....
Yes, I know it's the middle of the night, but I have just returned from a hotel outcall- very nice it was too, but am still a bit awake and the nice man I have just visited *waves at nice man* said that he had been reading my blog entries. Kind of reminded me that people do read, even though you're all rubbish at commenting and also connected nicely to something I was looking at today which I wanted to document.
My website has a helpful stats page which shows me how many people have visited each day, a list of referrers, i.e. where people have come from in terms of other websites I am connected to. This is useful so I know which websites are worth maintaining a profile on and also, just interesting. I often ask how a man how he has found me and this doesn't actually correlate with the sites that come top of the list. however, a lot of chaps respond to my question with 'the internet' which isn't dreadfully helpful, but hey they don't come to see me to assist with my marketing strategy!
The other thing the stats page tells me is a list of search engine searches, so if someone Googles 'Lydia Hounslow' and they click on the link given by google to get to this website it comes up.
This is my list for Feburary:
OK, Minxy Lydia comes top with quite a lot of people googling this, which makes sense, people who I have met or have me recommended by name but not recall my website would naturally google this. ' Lydia escort' is a little vague, but will still throw up this website somewhere in the list. I'm not entirely sure how the person searching for' Lydia escort mildenhall' got to me, but anyway.
What was really interested me was 'small penis minxy'. My initial reaction was WTF?! Why would a) someone google this and b) I don't have a penis, small or otherwise. I don't know what someone would google this, but could speculate- come on we have all googled random shit to try and find something. I googled this and sure enough I came up- more precisely a blog entry I made. So, it all fell into place.
I tried the same with some of the other searches listed and sure enough I popped up- usually a blog entry. What is really exciting (well to me anyway) that because of a combination of my genius SEO work, that of my website provider, I suppose google (although I haven't quite got my head around google analytics) and of course the subjects I blog I about I am becoming more high profile in the web.
So although I was vaguely aware that blogging was a good thing in terms of getting found on the web I wasn't consciously writing to get more hits. I write because I like it and because I know some people enjoy my waffle and because I think it gives a little bit of my personality away to those who might come and see me on the basis of thinking I am a nice/sexy/interesting/slightly bonkers woman. Of course some of my blog entries may put people off, but I don't aim to be all things to all people.
I like the idea that men google and get me- I like that because I have talked about roleplay a lot here I might get found by a man looking for an escort to do roleplay with. It's obviously a good business builder (hey, a girl has bills to pay!) but also it's satisfying that someone would find me this way, come and see me and have a great time! It's good to know random people who might not have any intention on seeing me might read me. I like to play to an audience, so even though you are all pretty much invisible to me the concept of having lots of adoring followers (egotist, moi?) is very appealing!
I'm not going to change the way I blog (sporadically about random shit that comes into my head mostly) completely, but I might be more aware that by using the right words and talking about things that people might be looking for in an escort could benefit me.
Tomorrow I am going to talk about anal play and fisting, but I promise you I was planning to blog about this before I realised the above!
Right, to bed for me! Toodle Pip!