delve a little deeper....
Communication is really important in life. Whether within personal relationships or business transactions. Being clear about what you mean and what you want makes for an easy simple life both for you and the person you are communicating with. The way you interact with someone gives them an instant impression of you and that can be important. You might be a nice person but you might come across as an idiot of you don't say what you mean in a nice polite way!
I have instant dislikes when someone is communicating with me. I have to be very satisfied the people who come and see me are nice, decent and polite and I am of the opinion if they can't communicate with me nicely why would I want to meet them?
Prime examples of this are when potential clients call or email me. He is a handy guide to how to communicate effectively with me. I have given examples of the right and wrong way to start a telephone conversation with me.
Wrong: Do you do anal?
Wrong: Are you open?
Right: Are you available today?
Wrong: What do you look like?
Right: I've seen your profile and you look great!
Wrong: Where are you?
Right: Are you based in Hounslow today?
I think the thing that bugs me is some men's inability to start a conversation with a basic hello, hi or good morning or a random question without any substance to it. You wouldn't call a restaurant and say 'Have you got a table?' would you? You'd ask if you could make a reservation for Friday night at 8pm.
Needless to say any this goes for texts too- 'R U free' texts on't get a response or if I am feeling cheeky will get the response 'No, I'm expensive!'
It seems like basic etiquette to me, but sadly I have to deal with this kind of thing most days. Oh and if you think you can call me for some phone sex then you are very much mistaken, I can spot a phone wanker a mile off!
The next step to good communication and therefore resulting is an idea of what you want during your booking. I'm not easily shocked and I won't be offended if you ask me to dress like a slut or to come on my face. It's what I do so there is no need to feel ungentlemanly asking me for this- if it is what you want then do ask!
It's useful to know what you want, some men are great at responding to me asking 'So, is there anything particular you'd like today' when I sit them down on arrival. Some men less so- 'Um, anything' is not a useful answer. I really want to do the kind of thing you'd like so if your thing is to have a cuppa and a chat prior to the action then that's fine. I don't know this though if you don't tell me. I don't want to throw myself at you the minute you walk through the door if you want to get to know me a bit first, nor do I want to make small talk if you'd rather I was sucking your cock in the kitchen!
It is impossible to know how someone likes something unless they say, I know I give a pretty good blow job, but everyone has different requirements, if I'm not doing it quite right, I really don't mind if you tell me to go faster, slower, harder, wetter and so on.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with spontaneity and a list or schedule isn't very sexy, so I don't expect you to set a rigorous agenda for our meeting!
Just to remind you again I am in Leeds and Guildford the week after next so if you're in the vicinity and fancy some Minxy Magic do let me know!