delve a little deeper....
One of the things I often ask callers booking me is if they have any requests. It's a polite way of trying to figure out what they want from their booking so I can prepare in advance or advise them in case it's something I don't offer.
To be fair, most chaps are after a basic GFE service or if they have a specific service or roleplay in mind they talk to me about it during the call.
When it comes to what to wear I have several outfits I tend to put on as standard based on what most chaps want. Always stockings (or hold ups), heels and usually short and low cut skirt and top. Partly because they are easy and most men when questioned prefer heels and stockings and something a bit slutty. The usual way of being asked for slutty is to say 'something low cut to show your boobs off!' which I like. I'm not exactly shocked that it's often my tits that draw a man to me! That and my sparkling personality and witty repartee!
Despite many of my photos being of me in basques and corsets I rarely actually get asked to wear these which is fine by me. They tend not to lend themselves easily to certain services such as breathing or bending over. That's not to say I won't wear them if asked, as long as it's in advance. Nothing more annoying than being texted ten minutes before a meeting being ask to wear a corset. In fact being asked to wear anything that I am not currently wearing at such short notice is annoying!
I get the odd request for leather, latex, PVC or rubber which surprises me because I don't feature any of these items on my website of photographs. I also equate this kind of fetish wear to domination services which I don't do so it always makes me worry they want something I'm not about to provide.
I am also not overly comfortable with the rubbery type get ups because quite frankly I look like a giant tyre in my rubber dress. I remarked to the man who bought it for me when I tried it on that he could chuck me out the window and I'd bounce right back up again! He found me sexy though, but then again he is terribly biased. So, I don't advertise the rubber dress (Oh shit, I just have haven't I?) Also, I'm not sure I can actually get into it without help!
i suppose the point being, however hot someone might find me, if I don't feel good in an outfit then I don't feel sexy and let's face it sexual confidence from a woman is probably what makes her sexually appealing.
What does always make me smile, is when clients ask me to 'wear something sexy'. As if I wouldn't. As if I would open the door in a pair of grubby leggings and a floppy old top with beans spilled down the front. Although from reading various punting sites, some women don't seem to make any effort and clients have been welcomed by escorts in shell suits and flip flops.
Many lovely clients feel uncomfortable about asking a woman to wear something in particular and often requests are tagged with 'if that's ok' or 'it's not vital though' or 'whatever you feel comfortable in' which is lovely and sweet but I actually really don't mind being asked. Partly because it's their experience and I want to do it the best I can and also it appeals to me slightly submissive side. Bossy and mouthy as I can be there is a part of me that likes being told what to do. That and I'm lazy and being told means I don't have to think!
I guess it's the same reason many powerful, busy, successful people enjoy being submissives. They like to be able to relinquish control and not be the one everyone looks to to make decisions.
Anyway, I digress. The point being, I don't mind being asked if I could wear a certain thing. Within reason of course. I am not the costume department at the BBC and can not conjurer up any outfit in any colour within minutes!
Something I often read on escorts websites is that they don't have costumes and then go on to say they dislike tacky cheap uniforms. Fine, but why be so sneering about it? I don't have many, and to be honest I do find a lot of them a bit naff, but I feel good and have had great fun in my nurse and French Maid outfits.
Maybe, part of the reason is that I enjoy roleplay a lot and I guess like an actor getting into their costume; dressing up gets me into the mindset!
So, in a nutshell, do feel free to suggest what you'd like me to wear (as long as it's not the rubber!).
It's been a trying week! My bed has broken- don't worry, it is usable, just a bit wonky and I am hoping a new one will arrive next week. Which lucky man gets to christen it though?!
Yesterday I managed to lose my phone at Tesco. I think I put it down when I was sorting my shopping out after I had paid, I was walking home so stopped to rearrange it so the bags were evenly distributed. I got as far as the end of the car park and went to text someone but phone was not to be found. Went back to where I was and it wasn't there. Rang phone several times (I had my work phone on me too) no reply. Went back into the shop to ask the security man, cigarette counter lady and customer services. Nothing had been handed in. I can only assume someone dishonest picked it up the minute I left it. I kept ringing it and noone answered- a normal person would answer a phone they had found wouldn't they and say 'Hello, I just found this phone'? So assume some stinky arse wipe has picked it up and thought they could keep it. They will also get the bonus of some rather exciting Lydia porn if they try to upload the contents of the memory card. Anyway got it blocked when I got in and had to go and get a new sim card his morning. the man in the shop was fecking usleless and unhelpful too
I have an old phone I am using for now (which seems annoyingly dated) but I really miss my lovely HTC Sensation. Who knew how much they cost to replace?! Not me as it was a contract phone so didn't pay for it as such. More bloody expense! Also, I lost all my contacts because I am too dipsy to save the numbers anywhere else. A habit I shall get into I think!
My laptop is also playing up, it won't charge, I think its the charger lead rather than the cable so have ordered a new one of them. If not it'll be the battery ...
Anyway, I shall stop whinging now. Having a good day with some lovely clients so that all helps and keeps my mind off the above tedious crap. I have a good weekend planned so that should set me off nicely into a new week nicely! Think of me in a field either getting soaked or boiled by the sun on Sunday (Who the hell knows what the weather is going to do?!) but I have good company and some awesome music to look forward too and I have packed for all eventualities so I should be fine. Oh I even have a pale purple rain poncho which makes me look stunning!
Oh and tonight was a first- I got paid in US dollars!
Hope you all have a lovely weekend whatever or whoever you are doing! xxx