delve a little deeper....
Things I am happy about today:
Happy Thursday all!
One of the things I often ask callers booking me is if they have any requests. It's a polite way of trying to figure out what they want from their booking so I can prepare in advance or advise them in case it's something I don't offer.
To be fair, most chaps are after a basic GFE service or if they have a specific service or roleplay in mind they talk to me about it during the call.
When it comes to what to wear I have several outfits I tend to put on as standard based on what most chaps want. Always stockings (or hold ups), heels and usually short and low cut skirt and top. Partly because they are easy and most men when questioned prefer heels and stockings and something a bit slutty. The usual way of being asked for slutty is to say 'something low cut to show your boobs off!' which I like. I'm not exactly shocked that it's often my tits that draw a man to me! That and my sparkling personality and witty repartee!
Despite many of my photos being of me in basques and corsets I rarely actually get asked to wear these which is fine by me. They tend not to lend themselves easily to certain services such as breathing or bending over. That's not to say I won't wear them if asked, as long as it's in advance. Nothing more annoying than being texted ten minutes before a meeting being ask to wear a corset. In fact being asked to wear anything that I am not currently wearing at such short notice is annoying!
I get the odd request for leather, latex, PVC or rubber which surprises me because I don't feature any of these items on my website of photographs. I also equate this kind of fetish wear to domination services which I don't do so it always makes me worry they want something I'm not about to provide.
I am also not overly comfortable with the rubbery type get ups because quite frankly I look like a giant tyre in my rubber dress. I remarked to the man who bought it for me when I tried it on that he could chuck me out the window and I'd bounce right back up again! He found me sexy though, but then again he is terribly biased. So, I don't advertise the rubber dress (Oh shit, I just have haven't I?) Also, I'm not sure I can actually get into it without help!
i suppose the point being, however hot someone might find me, if I don't feel good in an outfit then I don't feel sexy and let's face it sexual confidence from a woman is probably what makes her sexually appealing.
What does always make me smile, is when clients ask me to 'wear something sexy'. As if I wouldn't. As if I would open the door in a pair of grubby leggings and a floppy old top with beans spilled down the front. Although from reading various punting sites, some women don't seem to make any effort and clients have been welcomed by escorts in shell suits and flip flops.
Many lovely clients feel uncomfortable about asking a woman to wear something in particular and often requests are tagged with 'if that's ok' or 'it's not vital though' or 'whatever you feel comfortable in' which is lovely and sweet but I actually really don't mind being asked. Partly because it's their experience and I want to do it the best I can and also it appeals to me slightly submissive side. Bossy and mouthy as I can be there is a part of me that likes being told what to do. That and I'm lazy and being told means I don't have to think!
I guess it's the same reason many powerful, busy, successful people enjoy being submissives. They like to be able to relinquish control and not be the one everyone looks to to make decisions.
Anyway, I digress. The point being, I don't mind being asked if I could wear a certain thing. Within reason of course. I am not the costume department at the BBC and can not conjurer up any outfit in any colour within minutes!
Something I often read on escorts websites is that they don't have costumes and then go on to say they dislike tacky cheap uniforms. Fine, but why be so sneering about it? I don't have many, and to be honest I do find a lot of them a bit naff, but I feel good and have had great fun in my nurse and French Maid outfits.
Maybe, part of the reason is that I enjoy roleplay a lot and I guess like an actor getting into their costume; dressing up gets me into the mindset!
So, in a nutshell, do feel free to suggest what you'd like me to wear (as long as it's not the rubber!).
I meant to get some pics in my Union Jack dress ready for the Jubilee, but a) I am not that organised and b0 It didn't seem a respectful way to mark The Queen's 60th year on the throne. See, I am a nice girl! Anyway, I finally got round to doing a set this afternoon and have uploaded them to my Adultwork private gallery. But because you, my special website readers are so lovely I shall give you a couple of shots now! :)
I'm being very modest here! Would you like a full blown tits out shot? Yes, I hear you cry? My pleasure...
I don't really do new years resolutions. 1. Why set yourself up for failure and 2. If you really want to do something why wait til January 1st. However, saying that I do want to try and be a good girl and blog more. I miss documenting so many exciting things and from the emails I get so many people are following me and enjoy what I write so I feel a bit of a let down by not posting.
I won't write a whole story here, but I must tell you I had a fabulous Christmas party. 14 guys came and we had a really good, fun, sexy time! below is my favourite photo from the party! Might not appeal to you all, but I love it!
In less sexy news I had a good Christmas, very chilled, but no grief and no cooking for me!
Have generally had a quiet time, but all good. New years Eve, I am not a fan of so am staying in alone and curling up on the sofa and watching telly. Who wants to be squashed in busy pubs, deal with ridiculously drunk people, the cold and not being able to get home?! I certainly don't. however, I am keeping off the booze- that will only make me melancholic, but saying that I might have a glass of wine to toast the anniversary of losing my virginity! Yes I lost my virginity 20, yes that is TWENTY years ago today. That makes me feel very very old. Oh, you know the losing my virginity story I told you? That was the 'official' version, the real actual first time was a bit of an error and on New years eve, 1991. Yes, I always was a slut!
Today I had a most excellent time being a slutty schoolgirl, I was a very bad girl who needed help with her maths homework...
Here's a couple of quick snaps I took once I had got ready... apologies for dodgy self shot in mirror, but hey we can't always have a studio and professional photographer at hand (and yes my bathroom mirror needs cleaning)!
Finally, have a wonderful New Years Eve, however you are celebrating and I hope 2012 brings you all you desire and I do hope I get to meet (and re meet) some of you!
Last Friday night I went to see a dear friend to assist with some chores he had at work. Wanting to provide a little bit of excitement to counteract the not very thrilling chores that needed doing and to cheer up a grumpy old man I dressed to please.
Seeing as I had to travel by train and tube to get there I couldn't be too obvious in my attire...
I wore my favourite suspender belt and stockings with crotchless knickers underneath, knee high boots and covering it all up with a longish skirt- but a cunning skirt which unzips all the way up the back. Obviously I had a cleave-tastic top on too.
I also had a set of love balls secreted inside me. Every time the train went over a bump i almost came! I was also slightly worried that they would slip out- the crotchless knickers wouldn't have caught them! Had visions of them bumping along the train carriage to the horror/confusion of other passengers!
I will spare you the details of the work related chores, but there was something very exciting about being stood on a little stool as the man in question unzipped my skirt and had a grope! Of course being a dutiful little helper no serious action occurred until all the jobs were done!
In other news I have had a gangbang, and a MFF threesome in recent weeks and also a mini break to the West Country to recharge my batteries!
Am back now, after 6 days off and can't wait to catch up with all my lovely men!
Yet another awesome roleplay at the weekend. This time I was a headmistress complete with tight blouse, long skirt and boots! In fact I have a quick snap of boots which I shall add below this entry!
My student was very naughty and had not remembered his uniform so I lent him a white shirt and a school tie!
Once ready he was called into my office to explain his behaviour in class. It turns out he was being disruptive because he had heard I was a slutty teacher who gave special treats to students who needed an incentive to work harder! By the end of the session he had certainly experienced all the treats a girl could give!