delve a little deeper....
Today I received an email asking for some advice. Admittedly it made me feel rather like a wise old woman that men will come to in their hour of need. I'm assuming this man decided to ask me because I a) have a lot of sex and b) am a nice kind person! I have certainly never advertised myself as some sort of Agony Aunt or sexpert!
Am now dreaming up the title of my advice column- 'Aunt Lydia' makes me sound a bit old maidish, maybe 'Cousin Lydia'? However an agony cousin doesn't quite read right! Hmmm, 'Lydia Sorts it out'? 'Ask Minxy'? 'Minxy Makes you Feel better'? Naaa, am struggling on this... any ideas?!
Here is the problem I received and my response...
I seek ur honest remarks lydia please don’t worry about keeping my heart or my esteem whilst making remarks.
I’ve a small penis syndrome, it is exceptionally tiny, it is hardly 2 inches, while many say it should be at least 3 inches to touch the right places. Till now I had sex three times I’m good in foreplays and I indulge in loads of foreplay, ice cubes, licking, blind folding etc so please in ur remarks don’t dwell on foreplays as I know a lot about it. But when it comes to penetrative sex, I’ve sensed a great lack of pleasure in the women and that she is finding it hard to do penetration.
It would be a great favor on me if you could kindly view the pics of my general area in my profile, and then if you kindly could make your HONEST and TRUE remarks. I’m specifically concerned with penetrative sex and how the women feels doing it with me. So while making remarks assume if YOU are doing it, whether would you feel penis inside u, feel it touching the right places in vagina, feel it humping in vagina OR wont feel it inside u, find doing sex difficult with it, or think certain sex positions impossible, etc.
Your remarks will help me a lot, as to generally understand my potential and as well as to what extend a women would get pleasured with my penis size, to what extend would she get turned off, in which positions she would feels me inside and in which positions she wont. So lydia please be honest, no matter how harsh you think your remark is.
Much much thanks for your time and for sincere and honest remarks. Love xxx
Lydia Says:As long as you are good at the foreplay then that is the main thing- the actual in and out of sex is less important!
In terms of position I honestly think this depends on BOTH people, not just the man or the size of his penis. All bodies are different and fit together in different ways- it will depend on body shapes and heights so the 2 people together have to find one that will work for them!
Do also remember that the first couple of inches inside a vagina are the most sensitive and most women will come through stimulation to the clitoris. Therefore a huge penis is no essential!
I'm also a big believer in the two people being relaxed and comfortable with each other and also and a certain amount of sexual pleasure does come from being into your partner and being made to feel sexy and desirable.
I would suggest you try not to worry too much and relax and enjoy your time with a woman, confidence is a very sexy trait and you worrying and bringing attention to your small penis wont help the matter- just roll with it, enjoy yourself and ensure the woman in question is satisfied- whether that be using your fingers or tongue!
On a personal note, I once had a client who had a similarly small penis to yourself and when we had penetrative sex it felt amazing! I'm not quite sure how, it must have been the positioning, but I could certainly feel him in me and maybe because it was rubbing around my clit and outer vagina was very stimulating!
You'll be fine, try not to worry!
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