delve a little deeper....
Sexting is now a thing. It even appears in the OED and is defined as: To Sext- Send (someone)photographs or messages via
Prior to that people have probably been having phone sex since the invention of the telephone but commercial phone sex services were offered in around 1980.
The first Phone Sex Websites to appear on the internet started somewhere around 1994, they were small independent companies, and women with a direct connect call to a girl at home rather than a dispatcher or recorded menu. Payment is done by credit card and calls are billed by the minute typically, or as a block of time.
By the year 2000 there was such an explosion on the internet that there were literally hundreds of varying phone sex services available. These services varied from Dispatch Services, Service Bureaus, to independent one girl operations.
But don't think that all this sexy stuff is a new thing. Back in 1909 James Joyce wrote the most amazingly candid and explicit letters to his sweetheart Nora Barnacle including this delightful piece of prose...
"My sweet little whorish Nora I did as you told me, you dirty little girl, and pulled myself off twice when I read your letter. I am delighted to see that you do like being fucked arseways. Yes, now I can remember that night when I fucked you for so long backwards. It was the dirtiest fucking I ever gave you, darling. My prick was stuck in you for hours, fucking in and out under your upturned rump. I felt your fat sweaty buttocks under my belly and saw your flushed face and mad eyes."
And the youth of today think they invented anal sex!
Now there are a huge number of online webcamming services, adult phone lines as well as apps such as Arousr which allow you to sext, make calls, swap photos and even private 1-2-1 video calling.
The use of apps makes it much easier to indulge in a bit of sexting, no need to be at computer or run up suspicious calls on your landline. You can even do it from a dull meeting or on the commute home! Although you may wish to refrain from video sex on the train!
I've always said and this is reflected in my adverts that I don't do domination bookings.
I've was never any good at being scary and strict and I've always felt uncomfortable with the notion that domination takes many forms and didn't want to accept a booking and then not be able to do what the client wants.
I had a tendency to feel I keep needing to ask the client if he was alright (ruins the moment for a sub!) and ended up looking and feeling faintly guilty if I feel like I'm being too mean!
Anyway, I have had a but more practice with humiliation and domination and have got my head round it a bit. I'm not about to start advertising as a Pro-domme- there are far far better women out there with all the equipment than me and it would be silly to compete with them and against my ethos to offer a service I am not 100% comfortable with.
However, what I do enjoy is adding new strings to my bow, being a bit more adventurous and also having a wide range of types of bookings. I also think there are many of you out there who would like to experiment with something new and might find the idea of a full on domination booking or not want to shell out for a dominatrix to discover it's not for you or that you still want the more cuddly or sexual aspects of booking an escort.
My aim is to provide a kinky girlfriend experience. Still the same Minxy, but with some added spice. You can pick and choose as many aspects of the services I offer, combining GFE and fetish.
For those of you who want something more hardcore but with a happy ending, that's possible too!
Have a read of my fetish pages and if there is something you are interested in contact me and let me know what you have in mind!
Links: Fetish Services overview
Humiliation- including cuckolding and feminisation
And of course, my popular anal play services are still available.